Does this sound like a MLC or am I just in a SSM?

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Thanks BrightFuture

I would say he might be uncomfortable. Even he told you that there is nothing going on and they are just co-workers and friends, he still feels that is not completely honest.

Yes I think this is really true. I would not have batted an eyelid if he had not been so secretive, and I am sure he was secretive because he felt guilty.

I was kind of in the same situation and did everything wrong – confronting and being upset about it. I think the best thing you can do is practicing DB and be the best you can be for yourself

Thanks BrightFuture. I can practice DB now but found it very hard in the beginning. The secrecy and not knowing what was going on was so difficult. I feel I have a much better handle on the situation than I did before. The secrecy doesn't bother me nearly as much but it has taken months to get to this stage. I feel very confident and much less bothered. (At the moment!)