Thanks Snodderly.

No, I don't think I have a bruise. He grabbed me firmly, but it didnt hurt. Kind of like how a parent would grab an errant child.

He said it was my fault for pushing the door back open after he closed it. He tried to physically keep me out. Don't ever try to keep a mother from her kids. Ever. H is very strong and towers over me and has about 100 pounds on me. Yet I was able to push that door back open even though he was blocking it.

Yes and after that scene has the nerve to come into my room and tell m it was my fault. I refuse to accept responsibility for that. And I told him so. He said I need to give him an opportunity to diffuse the situation. I said I did and you made it worse. Of course he told me I was "feeding into it". I told him that I will never ever walk away from my kids. Ever. I said this is a sensitive situation and needs to be gradual. Not abrupt.

He told me this will never happen again. Dam right it won't.


AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012
Two kids, one dog
D Final 6/18/14
J marries OW 1/24/15
"No matter where you go, there you are"