wishing, Please document what happened. Did he put a bruise on your arm/shoulder? If so, take a photo of it. I am so sorry he's acting like a complete and utter @ss. This is so not right. He can't stand the fact that you can do things properly and as a mother, your children want you to nuture them. He doesn't understand that he's the problem and that his children are not inclined to want him around them when he's acting out. He doesn't have one nuturing bone in his body and it's all about him and what he wants.
I admire you for stepping in and not backing down. He's angry because he can't control and/or manipulate you or the situation. Projection at its finest and yet, he's the one that's creating all of the ruckus.
I hope today is a better day for you and your children.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
