I think the hardest thing for me to get over is how W is with kids now.
Try not to judge her, you still want a R with her, right? That means there will have to be some forgiveness, right? Let go of wanting to control the R between her and the kids; work on you.
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I've always thought of her as supermom and believed her kids were most important thing to her but I'm struggling believing that right now.
Do you really think the kids aren't important to her? Maybe she got tired of being Supermom, it's pretty exhausting especially if she felt she was alone in it. Were you Superdad?
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She's still doing the school functions and activities but I thought her emotional coldness she has would never extend towards kids. I never want her and kids to not be close or have a good R.
Again, something you can't control.
Detach.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss
