I'm going to start cleaning up. Politely move/organize her/kids stuff and just clean up. Do it for me b/c I don't want a mess; not doing it for her.

At the same time I've also thought about leaving it messy. she knows my schedule at work lightened up a bit so leaving it messy might give the impression I am getting out rather than sitting at home. Mutual friend told me that she told ex that I'm keeping busy.

I find it interesting she was checking to see if I have food. And she was checking up on me on FB. For somebody who wants nothing to do with me she's still showing concern.

“People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.” Abraham Lincoln