When tapestries of life get tangled in the loom.

[MrBond]

"I must be specialist to convey the wrong message, because you all misread my intentions."

I don't think so. Once or twice I can understand, but you've consistently said things that prove otherwise.

"I changed S diaper, and she's complaining that he still had traces on his bum)(and why his socks and hood were soaked)."

These are valid concerns. What did you tell her or did you just ignore her concerns. Sounds like you're making it as if she's making a big deal over nothing. If you consistently come across like that here in text, then it's fairly safe to say that it's how you come across in real life.

And what about his other health issues?