NLW,

I think you should stop focusing on him and don't worry if any or all of his actions are weird. His actions seem to indicate that he is hiding something and trying to force you to agree with HIS terms. Yet you will have no way of knowing if his terms are good for you until you have the whole picture.

Do I remember correctly from your past threads that he has a history of lying and taking advantage of people (financially)? If so, are you really going to trust him and agree with his demands just for fear of him getting angry?

How do you know that he has not acquired additional debt with your name on it too? You might be in a worst position financially than you think.

I am not trying to scare you, but you need to know exactly what your position is. Your money spent with a lawyer might save you A LOT more in the long run.

Please, TALK TO YOUR LAWYER ASAP. Sandycay is right. He will have to turn over all the documentation one way or another. You can try to explain that to him first, but it sounds like his refusal has been going on for a while. What does that tell you?

PROTECT YOURSELF.


((((NLW))))


Me & H: 44
D7, D6, S3
Together: 20y, M: 17y
EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10
EA becomes PA: Spring 2011
H filed for D: 09/06/12
D Negotiating began 2/15
OW seemingly gone on 3/15
Still negotiating D