I've got my car, she's hardly ever here, not running up utilities anymore, paying me back some money, and beyond that I haven't been prying. I'm not asking her what she's doing, where she's at, of she'll be at the house, nothing of that sort. I'm not going to lock her out, pack her stuff, or forward her mail. Right, we aren't married so there's no default commitment but whatever, I do want her back. I haven't DBed correctly. Right now, I don't have anything else to do but DB properly and see what happens. I know in DR it's talking about a married couple but I believe it holds true here: if the R is in a holding pattern it's at least not getting worse.
“People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.” Abraham Lincoln
