Hi Bklyn,
Originally Posted By: BklynMom
Just wondering aren't the amounts of alimony and support percentages? I know my agreement is a percentage so that if he makes more next year the actual amount will increase. Can you two agree on a percentage without court? Then separately come up with his actual income for this year?


Yes, percentages are involved.

Two problems: He will only address percentage split on assets and will not entertain consideration of debts he has amassed that are in my name.

He will not provide any documentation about his income.

It's just weird....

And it's really making it hard for me to detach and be calm about the process.

IT JUST SEEMS SO STRANGE. I must be missing something here?

He is getting more and more angry with me for 'stalling' the process of settlement because I will not agree to his unsubstantiated percentage split of his version of assets.

If I had some money, i'd just say "Bring on the court order", but I'm still struggling to keep food on the table.