nero, that is funny! I do think it's easier to talk to people that don't know me or H. I don't want to be the source of gossip around the neighborhood or be totally uncomfortable if we get back together and thinking people are talking about us.
you know- i used to care- this has dragged on and i have found that I've needed the support of friends & have taken it. at this point- i don't care what the feedback is in the end. whoever doesn't like my sitch or way i conducted myself- can just cut me out of their life. '
it was "any port in a storm" time and i'm gladder to have had an ear & a friend when ineeded it - than protecting my "image" - whatever that is or was.
nice not to care about that.
oh brother- families huh? very strange about your h's father. my h has a father & mother that were smalltown hicks that came to the big city (ft.lauderdale - woo hoohuh?) and never looked back. cheated on each other- each found someone richer & prettier- they split when he was young. he's got major issues - yet here he is following their example. and he hates them usually- but doesn't see the similarieties. oh well- i'm no psychiatrist.
