Sorry AS I probably should have worded that differently. What my W brought up was running into the OM W one day. And since she knows that the two of us have stayed in contact(OMW and myself) she wanted to know what the OMW thought of her. I know its odd but she will contact me every two weeks or month or vice versa to compare notes and lies. Not sure how heathly this is but I figure its a good source of information.