That is what I keep thinking. She is just buying time and trying to make it as pleasant around the house as she can just until she can get out. Which I don't like. Feels like I am being used. She says she is still not sure what she wants to do. Says even if she had the money she is unsure if she would leave. Says she is torn. I'm not buying it. Guess there is nothing I can do about it either way though. As we say, I can only control my actions not hers. Thanks to both of you for the feedback.
Actually she may really feel that way. WAS's are often very confused and in turmoil over what they're doing internally even if they act cool and collected on the outside. I don't think she's using you, I think she really is confused and not sure that she's doing the right thing. Just stick with your 180's, use this time together to show her a transformed you. Even if she does eventually leave, whatever time you've spent showing her the new you will be what she remembers leaving. IE, she'll be much more inclined to miss the new you then the old you.
