It is interesting that you say about the perimenopause... my wife thinks she is in the peri stage now and will be in menopause in 4 years...I have started making a mental note of when she has periods because now she gets bizarre and very moody when they strike..sometimes she forgets or just say things about her past that I know never happened...
I am glad you are going to R-vill with W....and I will be very interested to see how it goes.