OK I am keeping my commitment to come here first before acting (or reacting tbh).

I had my physical today and I share doctors with my W. My MD is wonderful and she knows all about the D.

A few weeks ago, during the DB debacle, W told me that she was still having side pain and that the MD is sending her to a specialist and even mentioned the possibility of cancer... although the MD seemed to think it was something else.

Fast forward to today and MD asks me if W and I still have any R or contact now... I answer that we did a few weeks ago, I acted like a 12 year old and that I am not ready for it.

Later, I am home and thinking about the MD's unusual question... made me wonder if something serious is going on with W's health now.

What does everyone think?

Me(f): 51 W: 41
DP:8 M:3 T:10
"W not happy" 7/11
D final: 8/13