Kimmerz, that was such an awesome post to read. Just starting this journey, I have peace knowing that at the end of this, I'm going to be great. My kids are going to be fine. H is the one whose future is up in the air. I've been through too much already to lower my expectations of what I want in life and what I would want from a partner. 5 months ago I think I would have sacrificed anything, having a H who was only in the marriage for the kids. Never again will I be that insecure person.


M38,H39
M:16Y
BD:8/12
OWDB:11/12
S:11/12-5/13
"Temp" home:6/13
OW dropped:9/13
"I love you":12/13
H ring on:2/14
Depression back:5/15
"I'm done:" 7/15
H moved out: 3/16
H moved back: 12/16
Working on us: 3/17