Kimmerz, that was such an awesome post to read. Just starting this journey, I have peace knowing that at the end of this, I'm going to be great. My kids are going to be fine. H is the one whose future is up in the air. I've been through too much already to lower my expectations of what I want in life and what I would want from a partner. 5 months ago I think I would have sacrificed anything, having a H who was only in the marriage for the kids. Never again will I be that insecure person.
M38,H39 M:16Y BD:8/12 OWDB:11/12 S:11/12-5/13 "Temp" home:6/13 OW dropped:9/13 "I love you":12/13 H ring on:2/14 Depression back:5/15 "I'm done:" 7/15 H moved out: 3/16 H moved back: 12/16 Working on us: 3/17