I have been DB'ing for about a month now. I have not done a super job as I fell back a couple of times and said some mean things out of anger. To give you a little background, she has filed for divorce and we still live together. She has been distant and cold the entire time and has been out late at night (perhaps with another man). However, for the last few days she is being very very nice and seems to want to spend time with me. She has not been going out much either.

Is this simply an attempt to salvage a friendship or could it be more? Or could it be an attempt to make the divorce proceeding easier for her?

I don't know what to make of it, but I will keep distancing and GALing until she makes a move.

Any thoughts?