Maybe next time suggest that she call the teacher so she can hear it first-hand from a person who isn't emotionally involved.
That's a good idea and I may try that. I really want her to stay in the loop but not sure she can hear it from me yet.
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Her R with the kids is up to her but don't do anything to get in the way of that R. You continue being the best Dad you can be, supporting the kids, supporting their love for their mother.
This is what I'm trying to do. Whenever kids have asked questions about mom I've always talked her up, even when it's not how I really feel at the moment. I think the hardest thing for me to get over is how W is with kids now. I've always thought of her as supermom and believed her kids were most important thing to her but I'm struggling believing that right now. She's still doing the school functions and activities but I thought her emotional coldness she has would never extend towards kids. I never want her and kids to not be close or have a good R.
From article: "Ask yourself: Can I genuinely say that what I want is for my child to be happy, both when he is with his dad (mom) and when he is with me?" Thankfully, I can honestly say yes to this no matter how I'm personally feeling about W.
Personality is who the world sees, character is who you are
