CV, we cross posted. you're exactly correct. the WE was left out and the decision to support her was his.
now, i'm putting myself back in and i want to be a part of it and say, enough is enough. if he wants me to be a part of supporting her, i can't any longer. if that's one of his requirements to be married to me, i'm ok with it. i won't be married to him.
i can't imagine marrying someone else, say next year, and them thinking i would accept financially supporting their adult children?
i don't know how else to put it to make it understandable.
M:63 H:53 S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23 M:15 T:16
Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways." H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12 12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing