Marriage is a mess

[Marriageblues]

Another "I love you" from W on the phone last night. This time I was unsure of how to reply. I paused for a second, then said "Talk to you later". It was at the end of a conversation we had after my wife had dinner with a lady friend who is part of a couple that we used to swing with. This particular couple had broken things off with us late last year kind of mysteriously and unexpectedly, but during dinner last night with W apparently talked of how much they want to get back together with us. Not entirely sure how to handle that, or how much (or even if), my W talked about the problems we're having.