Here are some of the things I have noticed...AS, thank you for the encouragement and the reminder! : )

* “Hug Homework”~~Daily hug before departing**AS PER MC
* Having dinner and watching TV a few nights a week..not much talking
* On Monday, Dec. 10th, H surprised S by working through his lunch so he could come home an hour earlier.
* Ordering the cemetery blanket for our twin's grave for Christmas.
* Asking about Christmas Day plans~~Dinner at my parents’ house…he was asked to make the mashed potatoes, as my dad loves his!
* Reconnecting with his mother and sister and family in New Jersey. He has been talking to his mother more.
*Decrease in cell/phone calls and emails during the workday, has given us things to talk about at night.
*Offering bites of dinner
*Brief snowball fight on Christmas Day
*Arranging for my mother to bring S to the mall to pick out a bead for my bracelet.
*Offering to build a ramp for my father's elderly dog.
*Some unsolicited calls, texts and emails.
*Playing more with S...somewhat including me
*Fun while making the sauce for our lasagna.
*Family game of SORRY
*HavingS call me to apologize for being mean to me...20 minutes later.
*Some eye contact while playing with S…felt a connection.
*Washing S's wet sheets without being asked..before work.
*Expressed concern and anger when I did not call him when car got stuck in the snow.
*Making his pork loin a week after I mentioned it.
*Even though he wanted to stop seeing MC as of 1/6/12…on 1/8/12, wanted to talk about us and mentioned he would try a different MC.
* Suggesting we go bowling as a family
*Hanging around upstairs to tell me about his cousin and the squirrel adventure…funny.
*Upset/annoyed that I hadn't updated him about a job interview that I have today.