FM, thanks for chiming in. It's shocking to me how my statement was misinterpreted. I was not meaning anything negative -- at all! I was relating it to driving a '92 beater when all the neighbors have new luxury cars -- it's depressing to see everyday. Or driving down a street with $m homes on the way to work, then having to go home to your tiny little apt. I only wish!

I'm not WAS'g for the purpose of getting my H to respond. I think if H were bothered by my leaving, then his response would be something as simple as thinking to himself what things I liked and what things I didn't like, and adjusting accordingly. Simple 180's. If he changed, I would not leave (though I still don't know how to get over the trust issue.)

I'm curious, FM, this is the WAS forum (DB board, but WAS forum) and I consider myself a WAW. What sort of posts would you expect here?


Me:49 WAW H:59
T:19.5 M:19
S:13