Confused by WAS

[Grizz]

I know there are others out there that have a WAS that have said they want a divorce but either cannot or will not move out. This is my sitch. In the broader scheme I guess this could be a good thing as it gives her more time to change her mind and to see the changes I have made. However, it is so hard knowing how she feels and what she has said to me. The other thing is that she goes on as if nothing is wrong. Still has pleasant conversations with me, texts me and calls for nothing terribly important. Initially I distanced myself quite a bit but after some suggestions here I am no longer doing that as much and she still wants to be around me. This is good I guess but she has given no indication of any change in her overall feelings. ( I am not going to ask either). It is just hard to have her be nice to me and wanting to still talk when she has told me how she feels about us. Any thoughts or words of encouragement/discouragement are greatly appreciated. Thanks again.