CV, i admire you for staying with your H. my first husband, my son's father, was a little like your H. he was not attuned to my needs at all. he was not uncaring, just unable.
i wish i had stayed with him, for my son's sake. divorcing him has had a huge negative impact on my son, to this day, and he's 40.
as long as your son is not seeing things about your M that are detrimental to him, it's a small price to pay to wait until your he is older. easy for me to say now, huh? wish i could do it over.
M:63 H:53 S:41, SS:28, SS:25, SD:23 M:15 T:16
Bomb:12/17/11, "I think we should go our separate ways." H moves to his mother's house, 4/1/12 12/21/12: H moves back home, piecing