Rachael, Make copies of everything that you can get your hands on w/respect to finances. Be sure to make a list of questions that you want to ask the lawyer.
Unfortunately, I have to agree w/your counselor. It will get worse before it gets better. I'm sorry.
Good luck on Thursday.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
