no one is saying not to be grateful for better interactions. We're just saying that downsizing to a smaller home might be simplifying your lives for a good reasons, OR it's her making other plans that MAY be her way of softly walking towards piecing, without yet being sure -
OR not...but I would not press her or things between you two until you have the "action plan" you need. You'll have it in a few weeks. For now you still have a lot of confidence building to do with not being in a state of fear so often. Fear based choices are no way to make our life's decisions.
And oh, btw,
here's your "He11 yeah!" to telling her about EE.
Good job.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016