Went and worked out for the first time in a while and it felt good. While doing it W text me to see if since she was at that part of town if I wanted her to PU the kids and bring them to my place. I said thanks but I timed my workout to grab the kids when I was done. She said ok she didn't want to upset anything. I told her it was fine so she grabbed them. I think she was surprised I was working out since I've only done that a few times in our marrige.
She brought the kids home and grabbed a pizza for dinner. She got there and asked if it was ok to stay for dinner. She said she could take a few pieces and go to her place if not. I said sure no problem and we had a good dinner and family time that was nice. However the whole time I was wondering what other plans the OM had that she wasn't hanging out with him..
We also discussed going shopping togethor to spend some coupons that we both got in the mail. She suggested tommorrow but I told her i thought I had other plans so how about the next day. I dont really have any big plans I couldnt drop to hang out with her but didn't want to seem too eager. I think thats the right call. Continue to detach and let her know I will be ok with or without her. But right now I hope it is with her...