Amazing the hurtful things that are said. It does cut deep. Last summer W said to me "I don't care about your feelings. You are dead to me". With a dead look in her eyes and a tone of utter disdain. Now that hurt. This is only weeks after she said she loved me with love in her eye and said she was proud of me. Said I have so much to give, smarts, looks and humour. How bizarre. Again like the book after the affair says don't pay attention to the words but rather the hurt behind them.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.