Hey Bug, Actually to be honest I kind of expected a comment to say not too but instead she made her own and I did shrug and laugh a bit a said 'figures' to myself. It actually did not preoccupy my day oddly enough. I thought it would. I guess my expectations were low on it. Day was better than yesterday. As angry as I am or get, I do know she is angrier than I am and more resentful than I am. Less forgiving for sure. But your are right, gotta let go the anger more and expect less. I completely get your statement about spending many unhappy years doing things for others and expecting something in return. Problem is too, I believe both me and W felt that way. We were pouring out but not getting back in our LL's. This made us resentful.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.