Hey Bug,
Actually to be honest I kind of expected a comment to say not too but instead she made her own and I did shrug and laugh a bit a said 'figures' to myself. It actually did not preoccupy my day oddly enough. I thought it would. I guess my expectations were low on it. Day was better than yesterday.
As angry as I am or get, I do know she is angrier than I am and more resentful than I am. Less forgiving for sure. But your are right, gotta let go the anger more and expect less.
I completely get your statement about spending many unhappy years doing things for others and expecting something in return. Problem is too, I believe both me and W felt that way. We were pouring out but not getting back in our LL's. This made us resentful.


M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.