What? A marriage with problems??? Say it ain't so!?? I think you should really really consider not lashing out at those that value their spouse's and their marriages. At those that believe that marriage is more than a piece of paper.
AJ, I think you need to read again. I wasn't lashing out. I said it's depressing because I'm the WAW, and my LBS is not acting in the same way. I actually admire and envy having a spouse like that.
And AJ, I don't appreciate your sarcasm either. I'm not sure why you and KD think that's an appropriate way to address someone.