W said don't be afraid we can always get married again and have a nice wedding and they could be in it....I told d-11 to not read too much into it as W is still confused....Also the next day she told d-11 that she likes being alone but that she also likes my company...so I guess in reading this we are still scoreless at the end of the inning....
I'd take it as a good sign, it sounds like she's still displaying some confusion over what she wants. My wife said something very similar about a month ago, she said that sometimes she wishes we were back together but other times she likes living alone, so she doesn't know what she wants either.
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Also AS I see that you have added to your tag recently.....it sounds like things might be improving...:-)on your end..If so I am glad to hear it...
Thanks! Like you, I try not to read too much into things. But there have been some baby steps, it started at Christmas when my wife started asking questions about what I wanted for Christmas, I was really confused and asked her what she meant because I assumed we would not be exchanging gifts. She said that she did plan on getting me things, so then I had to scramble and do some last minute shopping! Around that time she also started initiating hugs, she had not initiated a hug since before BD. She's also done some little things like bring over cookies and candy she has made. And as you noticed in my sig, she signed us up for RetroV. I asked her back in November (when we had a talk about how she was still confused) if she wanted to do RetroV and she said "no", so when she sent me an email that she had signed us up just before Christmas I was pretty shocked about it. But, I have deliberately avoided any R talks and have been keeping the distance between us intact. RetroV is this weekend, I'm going in with zero expectations. I'll post an update next week.
