IO, how do you think your relationship would have turned out if your H had become LD himself and was fine with no sex and only wanted to give you a friendly hug once in a while? Would you have felt insulted or unattractive?
As crazy as it sounds, it sometimes seems like LD women still want the affirmation of being desired, but without having to go through the sex act. That is, I think there are LD women who don't want to have sex with their husbands, but they still wouldn't want to hear their husbands say, "Good news! You don't have to worry about having sex with my anymore because I'm no longer attracted to you!"
