Piecing - Round 2

[FloydMan]

Denver you are a strong man and a gentleman. The trust will take a long time for sure to come back, but at least she is being open now and letting you see current stuff. As long as she continues to be open and nothing to hide. Those who have nothing to hide, hide nothing. Sounds like she is even soliciting your help to shake him off which is another dynamic in of itself. She is keeping you abreast of the situation. More than most betrayed spouses get. Continue to be strong, this will still take a while but you are doing great. There will be ups and downs. Oddly I am jealous of you right now.

This clown of an OM sounds crazy. This folks is yet another reason that affairs are the worst thing you can do to your family and friends. See how many people are affected inside and outside the family? Family, friends, colleagues, employers, anxiety at a funeral! Look at the collateral damage. Wonder what the dollar number of lost productivity is in the workforce annually due to marriage issues and affairs? I know my work suffered and everyone that posts here on the topic struggles with productivity. Perhaps the government does need to step up and save families and marriages rather than tinker with legislation that helps to break up families and makes it simpler to D or have an affair rather than work on our marriages and families. Or are they too busy having A's of their own? These are stressful and confusing times so we need to get rational about the good of our core family values and protect them. This will make our culture safer and more loving and more productive.
Please for the love of God, do not have an affair if you are considering one or are getting swept up in one. Get help instead! Spread the word! We need to look after ourselves!