Truthfully, I'm so type A, the limbo and such is killing me.
If you detach from his craziness, and build yourself a fulfilling life without him, you're not really in limbo.
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I just feel like I need to get on with my life and I can't do that if we're still married. I want to date, I want intimacy and I'm not getting any of that and don't feel right about it while I'm still married to him.
Besides the dating, what else would make you feel like you were "getting on with your life"? Why aren't you doing it?
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I feel like it defeats the purpose of DB but he was going to do this anyway. I guess tonight I finally gave him 'permission' so to speak to pull the trigger. Ugh. Madness. Sheer and utter madness.
Don't be surprised if he doesn't initiate a D. Many of them don't.
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
