H's MLC started when BF murdered

[Raine]

Who knows what your H is telling the therapist too. My H only let's people know that we are separated if they don't know me. So then he can get the support and validation that it's okay he left. I don't know if that helps him all that much. My thing is I see glimpse of H and moments he doesn't want to lose me, but then I also know he is behaving inappropriately with other women. So he doesn't know what he wants. Or maybe he does know he wants or family but he is not capable of what comes with that and so he's trying to be happy with a lessor version.