Wake up and see there's a divorce

[AJM]

Don't be confused Fixer. Understand.

Understand that your sister is dealing with things in her own way. That's ok. Her opinions are just that. Her opinions.

You are the man you are supposed to be, right? Not what others wanted, but what you are supposed to be.

I have zero respect for a man that hits a person to get their way. I've seen it. I've lived it professionally. I've lived with the emotional and psyhological abuse that others have imposed. I have zero respect for that and zero tolerance.

Why? Because I know it is the easy way out for those people as a way to express themselves. They are not capable of maturity in my estimation. They are not capable of showing God's love, hence they are unable to receive it when you see that.

I'm a man who doesn't beat his loved ones. I'm a man who doesn't play mind games, although I'm very well proven and capable of both. I choose not to, and those that don't understand... well, they don't understand and they are welcome to their opinion. I'm strong enough to take the criticisms as well.

What I've found is that they figure it out later. Much later. I see no reason to stick around while they catch up. I have a life to live. And so do you, Fixer.

Stand up for your actions. You chose to do the things you did. Remember that and remember that you did not choose the easy way out as many in your position would. I bet you would be told you did the wrong things if you had chosen that too.

For many it is easy to talk the talk. Very few can walk the walk. You can. You have.

Now stand up for you and know you did what you could with what you had. Shake that off, understand that you love your ex, and she doesn't return that. That's ok. Let that be what it is and walk away. Like the man you are. Admit that when it's it, it's it. You will not put any more into ex. Her loss and her choice, my man. Very sad indeed. Not what you wanted of course. But there is no more for you to do and somebody out there is missing you because you are not done with ex. That's the tragedy in the whole thing, if you ask me.


AJ