My H cheated for over a yr...tells me daily Im the cause of a his problems...calls me a C-t daily..says we not married..abandoned us for days n mos at a time. He tells me daily he hates me. Screams at my kids constantly.
That's not acceptable behavior. That is abuse. I would politely and calmly tell him that you are done being treated like that and that if he doesn't stop then you will consult the authorities about your options. But here's the important part- make sure that you are 100% prepared to follow through on your threats.