I could realy use some input on my next move. My wife, I think, is testing me.

She apparently had some boudoir photos taken and asked me to take a look at them. She wants to put one of them on her Facebook, and asked for my opinion about it. She feels that she might get a lot of flack about it from our group of friends. most of them have disapproved of her choice to leave the marriage, so they have been very critical of every drink, picture or outing she goes on. She wanted to know that "I have her back" if she decided to put this picture up. Long story short, I got home and went to the photographers website. the pic is provacative, but not racy or tasteless by ANY means. I have pictures of my wife in a bikini on the beach that are far more revealing. However, they are clearly "modeling" style pictures. They would look completely at home on an ad selling a ferrari. Anyway, I am not really sure how to respond to her. Should I be supportive, or give it to her straight? I don't know why, but I feel like it is a mini test of some sort. It seems extremely odd to me that she would defer to her STBXH for suggestions on her facebook photos. He11, she BLOCKED me from her facebook. I wont even be able to see the pic...haha

Any help is greatly appreciated. She expects a reply soon


Me:46 Her:38
My D: 11
Her S: 8