LittleGTO- I agree it was selfish for H to go MIA.. We spoke on the phone, and he has been at home since last night. We have fought, cried, etc. I realize how we have come to this point.. And think whoever stated it, was correct , in that we both neglected and ignored each other. This didn't happen over night and as I think of the events over the past few years.. It has brought us to here. Please understand that, I do not accept this OW, never will and he knows that. I know we need to make us a priority, and as I told him, and argued with him over the last few months about this, all I accomplished was push him closer to her.. I told him as well, that due to his work, (being away from home so much, )I felt he neglected me. But we are talking, that is a start. We can't work on us... If we do not communicate with each other.
