Hopper, Mlcers actually don't have a sense of humor. Everything is in black and white and depressing. The situation w/hrm's h, she could tell whether he was going to distant and moody or just speaking to her by the placement of the toothbrush. There was no humor from her h in this sign by any means.
Hopper, I'm so sorry you are seeing the exact opposite of your h right now. I've called it the mirror image because on the flip side is the good and kind h that you once knew. Unfortunately, you can't tease him out of a bad mood because they take things to a whole another level of seriousness. They become paranoid and distance themselves from you. Sometimes, if they have a moment of clarity, you may see your old h peek out just a little bit or he will talk like he's rational and then before you know it, he's gone back into the rabbit hole. It's frustrating for all of the lbs when this occurs.
I'm glad you spoke to your doctor. They actually see and hear a lot about this stuff. I can still remember when I visited my GP to find out what my xh was using my health insurance for. When he told me that xh had contracted a case of mono, I just looked at him. He asked if I wanted ADs to help me w/xh's problem, as he had just provided a script for another woman whose h was going through an mlc. I just looked at him and told him no. So, they do see this stuff, i.e., just as lawyers and investigators do.
I like the song and yes, it reminds you to be strong and keep the focus on you. Leave your h in God's hands.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
