Yes I agree with you B. When I first moved back home I thought we were in piecing and got burned bad. At the time I didn't realize how much work I had to do on me. Reflecting back I've come a long way but have a long way to go. I mean I use to call her mom 5 x a day and bash my W to family members via txt. How lame was that. very. I even bashed her here on this forum. lame.
Now I wouldn't even think of saying anything bad about my W.
My guard isn't down. The only thing I can think of doing going forward is to continue to increase GAL. I mean ACOA and EE are huge steps but I think GAL and continue to work on myself.
You are correct. She hasn't come out and said she wants to work or recommit to the marriage to me. She definitely told a neighbor she was. That she felt like she was going though something and she needed to figure things out. Her actions are completely different too.
I'm still trying to let her come to me but let me tell you my W is a Capricorn and I have to say the most stubborn person on the planet. I love her and all. But she is stubborn and she knows it!
