"What I am saying is the last 2 weeks SHE has made a conscious effort."
No I get that. But she hasn't even told you she wanted to R. That's what needs to happen.
She could just as easily go back to her old habits because she hasn't dealt with the root of the problem. Don't let your guard down. It's why many people here who think they were in Piecing get burned.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.