Hugging goodnight? well that is a step. Don't pursue it though. Good step, but back away. It could be the 'let's be friends' play.
I don't even get a look or hear the words goodnight. Just a firmly shot door. Don't know how I would respond to hug but be strong and back away. Don't fawn over it.


M17 yrs.
me49
xW47
d15
d11

BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out)
Therapy 9 months (tried 2)
BD2- May/12(sep)
Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50
Sold home - Aug/13
Court #2 - Dec/13
Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again
We settled.