In times of a D venting is something I feel I need to do. I had a talk with my sister and she told me everyone could see my M would eventually end in a D. Then she told me it was my fault. She told me I should have been more aggressive in my M. She told me I should of made vacation plans and went without her. She told I should of yelled at my w and violate my D's trust when I found they were going out of state for New Years. The damage was already done. My D knew it was wrong to keep a secret like that from me. She was so worried after she told me. Her aunt told her if I knew about her vacation plans my D wouldn't have been able to go.
I thought I could depend of my sister to listen to me vent. Instead that little bit of comfort I had about this entire D'ing mess was gone.
Either way I have no choice my w still wants a D
Sorry I guess I wasn't as good as a DB'er as I thought. I'll be happy to give advice to those who want to hear it. It won't bother me if you take it