"I have been mostly focused on myself and the kids, I have kept a positive attitude, and I have not talked about the R with W."

You do know of course that this is exactly what DB is all about and what everyone's been telling you since day one.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER