This might be a strange question. But my W has still not approached me about working on our marriage. Her actions certainly have changed.
How do you progress. If MC counseling is not her thing how do we start to communicate more. Right now everything has been stable and fun at home. Do I just let things fall into place? I mean I am going to ACOA and flying to EE so I am doing my work (25 :-)
I mean now my W is talking about selling our home and downsizing into something more manageable. Our home has ALWAYS overwhelmed my W. I mean we still don't even sleep in same bedroom but downsize house and move without any forward progress on marriage? Seems off. This whole scene seems odd.
I guess I'm still waiting for the other shoe to drop as 25 stated.
I feel like a puppy that was kicked by its owner one to many times. I absolutely LOVE how things are going, but I have fear as we build up trust