In Limbo

[AJW]

Well it's become very apparent that MC with my WAS is premature. The therapist wanted us to carve out time for a "date" once a week and though I was hesitant we did it anyway. It created the perfect situation for bad things to happen. She didn't want to be there and was obviously distant and aloof and after all the small talk was drained I couldn't help myself and started talking about the R.

I think we need to tell the MC that dates are not feasible at this point. My W needs to get to a point where she's willing to try, not just willing to "show up". I wish she would just sh** or get off the pot.