I now see that H and I were both operating in our own little bubbles created of poor communication skills and almost nonexistent R skills and occasionally those bubbles would bump into each other, causing sparks, sometimes good, sometimes bad.
But for a long time we haven't been in the same bubble.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss