I agree with Ruby, subguy.

I now see that H and I were both operating in our own little bubbles created of poor communication skills and almost nonexistent R skills and occasionally those bubbles would bump into each other, causing sparks, sometimes good, sometimes bad.

But for a long time we haven't been in the same bubble.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss