When I locked her out, drastically, back in Oct...worst thing I did.

I wasn't clear, ONLY reason I went to see if she was in the bathroom is b/c I needed to get in there for a shower for work and was going to tell her so if she was occupying it.

So it's not even reasoning about the R, don't reason anything.

Am I to show no care or compassion? She says she might go to the hospital and I'm cold and don't care?

“People are just as happy as they make up their minds to be.” Abraham Lincoln