So I am down to 360lbs, I look and feel great. I am about halfway through the visit with my wife and we are actually getting along very well. We are in that "friendship" phase and we have also had some deep conversations about what we want out of a marriage and where we want this to go. She saw DR sitting on my nightstand (I have finished it) and asked me about it. Once I told her that this book was what helped me jump start my reformation of who I am today and who I want to be tomorrow she asked if she could read it. During this time she also asked me to move in with her when I move to Colorado. IMO, all small steps towards the end goal of saving this marriage and making it something better. I do have some questions.
One of the conversations we have had is that she doesn't feel an emotional spark there. She says she desperately wants to feel it because she believes that is what I deserve. Right now she doesn't want me to touch her, so no holding hands, no affectionate touches, no sex. She wants this, or so she says, but doesn't know how to proceed. Any ideas on how I should handle this situation? Should I just let it progress, or are there somethings I can do to nudge her in my direction?
My other question is preparing to move in with her. It's a one bedroom apt. so there isn't much room, should is it too early to make moves to re-attach? Or should I still stay distanced?
