Yep, maybe that is the fear element right there....I will have to deal with her forever. Maybe she wants me to be pi**ed off. She does not want to get along. Is that her fear? I have noticed I am more angry that we are more distanced. I have not spoken to her since Dec 28. But same house dynamic is hard. Unfortunately it will be a few months more. Legal crap too. RLA, you always note that you feel punished. I gotta say, I feel the same....I feel punished. But the shoes are on the other foot. Weird eh? Though I know that I said harsh things about the A. I was hurt. Things I did not mean even. She felt punished I am sure now in hindsight.
M17 yrs. me49 xW47 d15 d11
BD1-Jul/11(Affair found out) Therapy 9 months (tried 2) BD2- May/12(sep) Court Jul/13 - I got 50/50 Sold home - Aug/13 Court #2 - Dec/13 Court#3 - Apr/14 ... She lost again We settled.
